We get all uncomfortable on our chairs during money matters, that's because it is a touchy matter. there are many stores of value in life, just like time, knowledge, happiness and other positive emotions are a form of value. Money is often just the vechicle of interchanging these various forms of value with one another. Money is not the cause of wealth in one's life. it is the effect. Similarly, when people assume that money is the cause pf their problem, they are actually mistaken. Money is usually the most noticeable effect of their problems.
HOWEVER MONEY IS MERELY AN ARBITRARY STORE OF VALUE. IT IS NOT VALUE ITSELF.